When we let go of what we think we need to be, we give ourselves the room to grow into who we truly could become.
The society we have grown up in has taught us this story that we should be much more than we are comfortable in being.
The stories that are fed to us are absolutely endless. They take root in the relationships we have, the body were supposed to create, the look we are supposed to model and just about everything else in the book.
The are incredibly powerful stories that always tell us one thing - we aren't good enough the way we are.
But the truth is, we all have unbelievable gifts that give us the ability to create something in this world. Unfortunately, those gifts get covered up time and time again by the stories we are all led to believe.
It's a hell of a lot easier to be who you are instead of always trying to be someone else.
That may sound counterintuitive, but once you drop all of the nonsense that has been fed to you throughout your entire life you end up being pretty happy with yourself as a person. This doesn't mean that you don't have areas to grow - we all do - but rather it's a strong vote for how unique we all are.
Letting go of those old stories and focusing on building something new with our lives every single day is the only way that true lasting change happens.
And that constant change, amongst many other things, will help you create your goals and your dreams every single day.
Of course you will be challenged. Of course you will have your belief in yourself put up against all sorts of obstacles. But if you truly have faith in what you're doing you will be able to get up time and time again after you fall.
So make sure you do it for yourself and for the sake of the real you.
Appreciate the moment and attack the future.
Have faith in where you are at and if you want something different for yourself, go out there and create it.
Acting today will make your future self proud.
So go and get it for yourself. Do it now.
The society we have grown up in has taught us this story that we should be much more than we are comfortable in being.
The stories that are fed to us are absolutely endless. They take root in the relationships we have, the body were supposed to create, the look we are supposed to model and just about everything else in the book.
The are incredibly powerful stories that always tell us one thing - we aren't good enough the way we are.
But the truth is, we all have unbelievable gifts that give us the ability to create something in this world. Unfortunately, those gifts get covered up time and time again by the stories we are all led to believe.
It's a hell of a lot easier to be who you are instead of always trying to be someone else.
That may sound counterintuitive, but once you drop all of the nonsense that has been fed to you throughout your entire life you end up being pretty happy with yourself as a person. This doesn't mean that you don't have areas to grow - we all do - but rather it's a strong vote for how unique we all are.
Letting go of those old stories and focusing on building something new with our lives every single day is the only way that true lasting change happens.
And that constant change, amongst many other things, will help you create your goals and your dreams every single day.
Of course you will be challenged. Of course you will have your belief in yourself put up against all sorts of obstacles. But if you truly have faith in what you're doing you will be able to get up time and time again after you fall.
So make sure you do it for yourself and for the sake of the real you.
Appreciate the moment and attack the future.
Have faith in where you are at and if you want something different for yourself, go out there and create it.
Acting today will make your future self proud.
So go and get it for yourself. Do it now.
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