How to be happy? It's not as far removed as you might think.
I would like to tell you a short story before I get going.
When I was in my final season of baseball at college, I took one or two trips down to USC to be mentored from a renowned pitching coach to help me with my pitching style. It was a hot summer day and we were on the mound throwing a practice bullpen. Not a word was spoken for about 50 pitches when he eventually claimed to me the following.
"10% of the time you will be something incredible. 10% of the time you're going to suck worse than conceivable. 80% of the time you are going to be just average. The greates are made in that 80%. "
This story has a substantial amount to do with happiness accept it or not. Actually it has everything to do with just about every single day you wake up.
80% of those days you are going to feel just average.
That's correct. Average. Nothing great about the day. Honestly, just another "nothing special" average day. For many that is a crappy realisation about life. However, for those in the loop, it's pretty exciting.
The direction of your day is up to you. You can waste it by going in the negative direction or create something great by thinking positive. It's all up to you.
Keeping that story in mind, I designed these 7 advice on the best way to be happy.
1. Decide each morning you're in a good mood: Seriously though. Affirm yourself. Play music. Do things that you love. Focus deeply upon your goals and set the tone for the rest of the day. Every single morning I do something that makes me exceptionally satisfied and revved up for the day.
2. Write out your goals: The initial 30 minutes of your day are known to be "The Golden 30." Use that time smartly. Dive into positive messages. Inspire yourself. Write out those goals and visualize yourself achieving them. You are basically giving your body the go ahead nod by getting your consciousness in the right spot.
3. Work on your complaints: Take a piece of paper and do the following. On the left hand side of the sheet write out everything that you have grouses about in life. Trust me, if you are actually listening you'll have a ton. Then, draw arrows from the left hand side of the paper to the right and then write your solutions to the list of complaints. If you don't want to unravel them then you have got to let them truly go. Holding onto problems is pretty much the kryptonite for a person who is seeking to cultivate happiness in their life.
4. Get into action: You know all those things you've always needed to do but haven't because you didn't think you had it or were either too scared or lazy? Get into action. Start doing them. Take step 1. That will give you some momentum and then you can take that and tackle the more significant barriers. There isn't any feeling like achieving goals. So go for it.
5. Appreciate the fantastic people in your life: Tell the people around you that you care or love them and then tell them why. Tell them why they're important to you and why it is you're fortunate to have them in your life.
6. 2 blessed 2 be stressed: Most of the stuff you fret about doesn't ever happen anyhow. Theres a very well-known old phrase that claims worrying is like attempting to figure out a math equation by chewing bubble gum. That sometimes doesn't work out so well. Decide that you will be happy and also make the decision that the hindrances in front of you are an opportunity for you to show just how badly you really want something.
7. Make no your vitamin: This is definitely one of my favorite lines from inspirational speaker Les Brown. You have to be willing to go through a whole lot of "no's" to finally get to a yes. Yes, lives in the land of no. Don't give up!
We all have a chance to build happiness into our lives, but we have to do the work to get there first. Take these 7 tips on happiness into account when looking at your day.
I would like to tell you a short story before I get going.
When I was in my final season of baseball at college, I took one or two trips down to USC to be mentored from a renowned pitching coach to help me with my pitching style. It was a hot summer day and we were on the mound throwing a practice bullpen. Not a word was spoken for about 50 pitches when he eventually claimed to me the following.
"10% of the time you will be something incredible. 10% of the time you're going to suck worse than conceivable. 80% of the time you are going to be just average. The greates are made in that 80%. "
This story has a substantial amount to do with happiness accept it or not. Actually it has everything to do with just about every single day you wake up.
80% of those days you are going to feel just average.
That's correct. Average. Nothing great about the day. Honestly, just another "nothing special" average day. For many that is a crappy realisation about life. However, for those in the loop, it's pretty exciting.
The direction of your day is up to you. You can waste it by going in the negative direction or create something great by thinking positive. It's all up to you.
Keeping that story in mind, I designed these 7 advice on the best way to be happy.
1. Decide each morning you're in a good mood: Seriously though. Affirm yourself. Play music. Do things that you love. Focus deeply upon your goals and set the tone for the rest of the day. Every single morning I do something that makes me exceptionally satisfied and revved up for the day.
2. Write out your goals: The initial 30 minutes of your day are known to be "The Golden 30." Use that time smartly. Dive into positive messages. Inspire yourself. Write out those goals and visualize yourself achieving them. You are basically giving your body the go ahead nod by getting your consciousness in the right spot.
3. Work on your complaints: Take a piece of paper and do the following. On the left hand side of the sheet write out everything that you have grouses about in life. Trust me, if you are actually listening you'll have a ton. Then, draw arrows from the left hand side of the paper to the right and then write your solutions to the list of complaints. If you don't want to unravel them then you have got to let them truly go. Holding onto problems is pretty much the kryptonite for a person who is seeking to cultivate happiness in their life.
4. Get into action: You know all those things you've always needed to do but haven't because you didn't think you had it or were either too scared or lazy? Get into action. Start doing them. Take step 1. That will give you some momentum and then you can take that and tackle the more significant barriers. There isn't any feeling like achieving goals. So go for it.
5. Appreciate the fantastic people in your life: Tell the people around you that you care or love them and then tell them why. Tell them why they're important to you and why it is you're fortunate to have them in your life.
6. 2 blessed 2 be stressed: Most of the stuff you fret about doesn't ever happen anyhow. Theres a very well-known old phrase that claims worrying is like attempting to figure out a math equation by chewing bubble gum. That sometimes doesn't work out so well. Decide that you will be happy and also make the decision that the hindrances in front of you are an opportunity for you to show just how badly you really want something.
7. Make no your vitamin: This is definitely one of my favorite lines from inspirational speaker Les Brown. You have to be willing to go through a whole lot of "no's" to finally get to a yes. Yes, lives in the land of no. Don't give up!
We all have a chance to build happiness into our lives, but we have to do the work to get there first. Take these 7 tips on happiness into account when looking at your day.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author of The Words Of Encouragement, a website dedicated to bringing the best quotes, motivational content on the web, and blogs all to one place. Feeling ready to take the journey of your life? Dive into these life is too short quotes to explore the meaning of living in the present!
